About me...

My very first BDSM related memory dates back to when I was in junior school, I recall seeing an older boy receiving the slipper.... I watched this with some curiosity as the boy was bent over and the teacher firmly applying the sole of the slipper to his back side, to this day I can’t really recall what went through my mind as I witnessed this event, I just know that the memory of how his body reacted when the slipper connected remains as vivid to me today as the day I first witnessed it. Needless to say there have been numerous other things that have happened in my life which in hindsight could be related as being BDSM specific though at the time it was all rather innocent, I suspect that each of these experiences have gone some way to creating the person that I am before you today.

My official journey into the exciting world of BDSM actually started when I was in my late teens, these experiences were primarily sadomasochistic in nature. My fetish for rubber also began around this time as a desire that I simply could not afford, I recall trawling around the sex shops in Soho just to look at the beautiful rubber dresses that they had on display... as I just couldn’t afford such a luxury item I had to make to do with the cheaper imitation wet look materials purchased from the back of the tabloid Sunday newspapers. Needless to say it would appear that I have always had a fetish for dressing up and it continues to be one of my main fetishes today.

Throughout most of my adult life I have continued to participate within S&M activities, though for the last 5 years or so I have also started to become more interested in incorporating the Domination/submission aspect’s of BDSM, using the skill of psychological domination reinforced by incorporating appropriate rewards and just punishments depending upon the submissive’s behaviour.

Over the years I have been most fortunate to have happened across some excellent ‘teachers’ , all of whom specialise in their own particular area of interest ranging from various types of bondage, sadomasochism, torture and specialist interrogation techniques, protocol, etiquette and psychological Domination. I have experience of these areas not only as a Dominant but also as a submissive, so it would be true to say that I have a very good understanding of the mindset of the submissive when engaging in any BDSM type activity.

BDSM to me is a lifestyle choice; this is who I am and I simply adore it, naturally I am a very dominant woman who is exceedingly comfortable and confident within this role. I believe that BDSM should be about experiencing a mutually enjoyable experience in the extremes; it would be fair to say that I can range from being kind, sympathetic, nurturing and sensual to being harsh, cruel and sadistic. I thrive on being unpredictable and relentless and I take great pleasure as I watch you take what it is that I want to give, I will push you and in that experience a huge personal sense of satisfaction as you suffer for my pleasure.